From the Pastor - Epiphany of the Lord

January 3, 2025

Today is the Solemnity of the Epiphany of the Lord. For centuries we as Catholics celebrated this Feast on Jan. 6, but the decision was made several years ago (at least in the United States) to celebrate the Epiphany on the Sunday which falls between Jan. 2 and Jan. 8.
 

“Epiphany” means “manifestation.” It is on this day that Jesus Christ, the Messiah, is revealed as the light of all nations. Officially Christmas is not over. In fact, the recommendation of the Church is that on this day those who display a crèche, a nativity or manger scene, should replace the shepherd and sheep with the Magi and their likely animals on which they traveled as well as their gifts. However, that is all secondary to the real meaning of this day.
 

At Christmas the Messiah Jesus was revealed to the shepherds, who were Jewish. But on this day the Lord is revealed to all nations and to the Gentiles (represented by the Magi). We are all familiar with the star the Magi followed, but we need to understand all that is happening and what it means. This all represents the Light of Christ, a Light which today we honor and commemorate. We are called to be the Light of Christ right now to those around us and those with whom we come in contact. That way we can be the disciples Christ wants us to be.
 

The poet William Cullen Bryant captures the significance of the star the Magi followed very well when he wrote, “O Father, may that Holy Star, Grow every year more bright, And send its glorious beams afar, To fill the world with light.” © Catholic Stewardship Consultants, 2024

 

Pastoral Pondering

This past week there was a school shooting in Madison Wisconsin. The female, teen shooter, after shooting a number of students and teachers, turned the gun on herself. While there are plenty of folks that opine about the reasons for such senseless things, there seems to be a consensus that many adolescents today are plagued by various forms of social anxiety, depression, and other mental health issues.

 

A number of books have been written about the topic. One of those, The Anxiety Generation by Jonathan Haidt, posits several reasons that have contributed to this trend. His main insights include:

  1. Social Media and Technology: Haidt argues that the advent of smartphones and social media has dramatically reshaped the way young people interact with the world. Platforms like Instagram, Twitter, and Snapchat foster a culture of comparison and cyberbullying, increasing feelings of inadequacy and isolation among adolescents.
  2. Changes in Parenting and Education: Haidt identifies shifts in parenting practices, such as the trend toward overprotectiveness and "helicopter parenting," as contributing factors to anxiety in young people. This "safety culture" has resulted in reduced opportunities for children to experience adversity, leading to poorer coping mechanisms when faced with challenges.
  3. Cultural Shifts: The book highlights the growing emphasis on emotional well-being and the changing societal attitudes toward mental health. Haidt suggests that the culture has shifted from one that encouraged resilience and personal growth through adversity to one that prioritizes safety and emotional comfort. This has created a generation that is less prepared to deal with life's inherent challenges.
  4. Political Polarization and Social Justice Movements: Haidt also discusses the role of increasing political polarization and the rise of social justice movements, which he believes have contributed to a culture of victimhood. These movements, he argues, encourage the perception of a society filled with oppression and injustice, which exacerbates anxiety and division among young people.
  5. Psychological and Societal Impacts: Haidt explores the mental health crisis in detail, noting the sharp rise in rates of anxiety and depression among adolescents, particularly in the years following the widespread adoption of smartphones. He underscores the importance of social connection, physical activity, and real-world engagement in combating these trends.

 

Haidt concludes that the anxiety crisis among young people is not just a result of individual factors but is deeply intertwined with broader societal and technological changes. He calls for a cultural shift back toward resilience-building, real-world experiences, and healthier relationships with technology to mitigate the harmful effects of modern life on mental health.

 

The more we can learn about these things the better we can respond holistically and, hopefully, move the culture in a different and more life-giving direction.

From the Pastor

By John Putnam May 16, 2025
Today’s readings on this fifth Sunday of Easter contain inspiring but challenging messages for us Christian stewards. The Gospel from John includes this well-known verse: “My children…I give you a new commandment: love one another. As I have loved you, so you also should love one another.” What a succinct description of a stewardship way of life. It sounds so simples. But simple does not necessarily mean easy. How exactly is Jesus Calling us to love? As He, Himself loved. Jesus loved (and loves) by serving us and by making a sacrifice of His very life for us. That is a tall order. Living a life of service and self-sacrifice is not easy because it requires us to continuously fight against our selfish inclinations. But the more we empty ourselves of “self” by serving others, the more room we make in our hearts for God to pour His grace into us. Amazingly, the more we give our lives away to others, the more He fills us up with Himself who is love itself. And amid the inevitable challenging moments this way of life entails we can be assured that the Lord who loves us so much that He died for us and established the Eucharist to be our strength and nourishment, is right here with us every step of the way. As we face the hardships that come with living as Christian stewards, we can continue to rejoice in the wonder of the Resurrection this Easter season, finding great joy in following in our Lord’s footsteps and in loving as He loves. © Catholic Stewardship Consultants, 2025 Pastoral Pondering  As you have probably noticed, the original St. Mark building, the old rectory on Ranson Road, has been torn down. Preparatory work has begun on the lot for the new rectory. In the next couple of weeks, we will be meeting with the Diocese and doing some value engineering. Once that is accomplished it will be decided when we can move forward with groundbreaking and construction. On the Campaign front, we thank all of those who have extended their pledges or moved a one-time gift into a multi-year pledge. In order to reach the goal of $9.7 million, we still need to raise a little over $400K before June 30 th . Percentagewise, there are still a large number of parish families who have not participated in the Campaign. We need your help to reach the goal. Whether we accomplish that goal will determine what we can do next. As June approaches, we are preparing for the ordination of some of our seminarians to the Diaconate and then the ordination of our transitional deacons to the Priesthood. Please keep all of them in your prayers. One of those to be ordained deacon, Seminarian Michael Lugo, has been assigned to St. Mark for the summer. We look forward to working with him and know you all will make him welcome.
By John Putnam May 9, 2025
Throughout the Easter season, our readings have given us glimpses into the life of the newborn Church and the bold witness of the early disciples in spreading the Good News of Jesus Christ to all who would listen. The disciples were the first to live a stewardship way of life, and their example is as relevant today as it was 2,000 years ago. In the First Reading, from the Acts of the Apostles, we catch up with Paul and Barnabas in Antioch. While they certainly have some success in reaching many people there with the message of salvation, others are downright infuriated by their words and send them packing. Yet, we read that “the disciples were filled with joy and the Holy Spirit.” Overall, it seems as if Paul and Barnabas had failed in Antioch. But seeing failure has not robbed them of their joy. What’s more, they are filled to the brim with the abundant gifts of the Holy Spirit. How is this possible? It is only possible because Paul and Barnabas saw themselves as nothing more and nothing less than stewards of Christ and His Good News. This realization brought them freedom — to offer themselves and their lives to others for the sake of the Gospel. The “results” of their efforts were up to God. This Spirit-filled, joy-filled life is available to us all today. It can be achieved when we recognize, as did Paul and Barnabas, that all we have and all we are is a gift from God, meant to be shared with others for His glory. Of course, living as God’s stewards does not guarantee a life of ease or a life free of sacrifice. Sometimes the steward’s life involves challenges, requiring all the strength and love one has to give. In the end, there is simply no more satisfying way to live. © Catholic Stewardship Consultants, 2025 Pastoral Pondering Because of the time limits placed on us by the bulletin company, this is being written before the conclave begins but will be published after the fact, so we may actually have a new pope (and I hope we do) by the time you are reading this. It is a good reminder that there are still limits on our modern efficiency. Over the past couple of weeks, in addition to praying for the repose of the soul of Pope Francis, we have also had the opportunity to celebrate confirmation with Bishop Martin with a little more than half of our confirmands (99), the remaining 80 or so will be confirmed this week. We have also celebrated two of our First Holy Communions with the remaining two being celebrated next Saturday. May is always busy!  It is always a great blessing to celebrate these sacraments with our young people. Celebrating with the second graders is a special joy because they are so open to God’s presence in their lives. We are also praying for those candidates (folks baptized in another Christian church) who will be received into the full Communion of the Catholic Church on the Vigil of Pentecost. Please keep all of these folks in prayer as they grow in the sacramental life and in their walk with Christ.
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