From the Pastor - 13th Sunday in Ordinary Time

July 10, 2026

Today’s readings remind us that following Christ requires commitment.


In the Gospel, Jesus calls His disciples to follow Him without hesitation. “No one who sets a hand to the plow and looks to what was left behind is fit for the kingdom of God.”


The stewardship way of life calls for this same focus. We are invited to give ourselves fully — not halfway, not when it is convenient, but completely.

When we place God first, we discover true freedom. As St. Paul reminds us, “For freedom Christ set us free.”


Let us respond to God’s call with trust and wholehearted commitment. © Catholic Stewardship Consultants, 2026.


Pastoral Pondering

A regular prayer life is the heartbeat of the Catholic faith—it’s how we cultivate intimacy with God, receive grace for ministry, and model discipleship for those we serve. The Church teaches that prayer is essential for holiness (CCC 2558–2565), and saints like St. Teresa of Ávila and St. John of the Cross emphasize perseverance in it as the path to union with Christ. Here are some of the most effective, time-tested practices that help build and sustain a consistent habit of prayer.


1. Establish a Fixed Daily Rhythm (The Foundation)

Morning Offering and Evening Examination: Begin the day with a short Morning Offering (e.g., the traditional one or the one from the Apostleship of Prayer) to consecrate your work, joys, and sufferings. End with an Examen of Conscience (St. Ignatius style: gratitude, review of the day, sorrow for sins, resolution, and a prayer for tomorrow). These bookend the day in 5–10 minutes each and create natural anchors.


Liturgy of the Hours (Divine Office): For priests and religious, this is the official prayer of the Church. It is, however, recommended for everyone. If you want to give it a try, commit to at least Lauds and Vespers daily if full coverage isn’t possible yet. Apps like iBreviary or Universalis make it portable. Many find that praying it in the same chair or chapel spot builds the habit powerfully.


Set a “Prayer Appointment”: Treat prayer like a non-negotiable meeting—same time, same place (e.g., 15–30 minutes in the morning before the demands of the parish hit). Consistency beats intensity.


2. Core Devotional Practices

Daily Rosary: Our Lady repeatedly asked for this at Fatima and Lourdes. Even a single decade on busy days builds up.


Lectio Divina: Sacred reading of Scripture (Gospel of the day + one other passage). Read → Meditate → Pray → Contemplate. 15–20 minutes daily transforms Scripture from intellectual knowledge into lived encounter.


Eucharistic Adoration: Schedule a weekly Holy Hour (or even 15–30 minutes). Just being in His presence is transformative—bring your intentions, your family, and your own struggles. Many find this the single biggest sustainer of zeal.


3. Integrate Prayer into Daily Life

Short Aspirations and Ejaculatory Prayers: Throughout the day, use simple phrases like “Jesus, I trust in You,” “All for You, Lord,” or the Jesus Prayer (“Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner”). These turn ordinary moments (stoplights on I-77, waiting for meetings) into prayer.


Angelus or Regina Caeli: At noon (and 6 a.m./6 p.m. if possible). It’s brief, Trinitarian, and keeps the Incarnation before your eyes.


Grace Before Meals and Family/Staff Prayer: Model it publicly and invite others.


4. Accountability and Growth Tools

Spiritual Direction: Is essential for priests and religious but can be a great help to the laity as well.


Prayer Journal: Write intentions, insights from Lectio, or graces received. It helps track God’s faithfulness during arid times.


Accountability Partner or Small Group: Somebody that you can just touch base with. The Cursillo movement has built in helps for this.


Retreats and Pilgrimages: Annual silent retreat + shorter days of recollection. Local options in the Diocese of Charlotte or places like the Abbey of Mary Help of Christians can recharge you.


5. Overcoming Common Obstacles

Dryness/Distraction: Accept it as normal (the saints endured it). Persevere with vocal prayer or Scripture when mental prayer feels empty. Offer the struggle itself.


Busyness: Start small—add one new practice for 2–3 weeks before layering another. Use driving, walking, or chores as prayer times.


Temptation to Skip: Remember St. Josemaría Escrivá’s advice: “The battle is won or lost in the first five minutes of prayer.” Just begin.


Recommended Resources

Books: Introduction to the Devout Life (St. Francis de Sales)—practical for busy people; The Three Ages of the Interior Life (Fr. Reginald Garrigou-Lagrange); Time for God (Jacques Philippe).


Apps: Laudate, iBreviary, the Tan Books app, Hallow (great guided content), or the USCCB daily readings app.


Church Teaching: Catechism of the Catholic Church, Part Four on Prayer; documents like Veritatis Splendor or papal writings on the spiritual life.


Remember, a faithful prayer life bears fruit in charity, patience, and joy—even when we don’t “feel” it. Many great saints credit their perseverance to these simple, steady habits.


From the Pastor

By John Putnam • November 6, 2026
Wisdom is at the heart of today's readings. It is one of the seven gifts of the Holy Spirit and an essential gift for living the stewardship way of life. As Christian stewards, we should continually ask the Holy Spirit to deepen this gift within us. In today's Gospel, Jesus tells the parable of the 10 virgins waiting for the bridegroom. Five are wise, and five are foolish. The wise virgins prepare ahead of time, bringing enough oil to keep their lamps burning. The foolish ones fail to prepare and are caught off guard when the bridegroom arrives. Jesus concludes with this reminder: "Therefore, stay awake, for you know neither the day nor the hour." Stewardship helps us live with that same spirit of readiness. When we seek the Lord each day through prayer, the sacraments, and the faithful use of the gifts He has entrusted to us, we keep our hearts prepared to meet Him whenever He calls. That is the wisdom Christ desires for each of us. © Catholic Stewardship Conference, 2026 Pastoral Pondering - Rooting Out Anger Few things disturb the peace of a home, a parish, or a soul as quickly as anger. A sharp word at the dinner table, a resentful silence after Mass, a flash of irritation in traffic-each seems small in the moment, yet the Fathers of the Church warn us that anger is a deadly poison. St. John Cassian, the great monastic teacher whose writings shaped Western spirituality, dedicated an entire book of his Institutes to this vice. His counsel is bracing and practical for us today. Cassian insists that anger must be "utterly rooted out from the inmost corners of our soul." As long as it remains, it blinds the eye of the heart. We lose right judgment, the capacity for true counsel, and even the ability to pray. "The wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God" (James 1:20). Whether the provocation seems just or unjust makes little difference: anger covers the eyes of the soul like a plate of gold or lead- the value of the metal does not restore sight. He rejects the common excuse that we may be angry with those who do wrong, or that Scripture's language of God's "anger" justifies our own passion. God is free from all disturbance; the biblical language of divine anger is metaphorical, pointing to His just judgment, not to a human emotion we may imitate. To use it as permission for our own resentment is, Cassian says, to draw from the Scriptures an occasion of sin rather than a remedy of holiness. There is, however, one legitimate use of the energy of anger: we may and should be indignant against the evil thoughts and disordered desires that rise within our own hearts. When we are ashamed of what we would never say or do before others, yet find it stirring inside, we are to rage against that disorder, trembling before the all-seeing eye of God. In this sense the psalmist's "Be angry and sin not" (Psalm 4:4) and St. Paul's citation of it (Ephesians 4:26) are understood: be angry with your own faults, lest the Sun of Righteousness set upon a darkened mind and the devil be given place. Cassian's remedies are simple and severe. First, make a firm resolution never to be angry at all-neither for good reasons nor bad. The moment the passion enters, discernment is lost and the soul can no longer be a temple of the Holy Spirit. Second, never attempt to pray while angry; such prayer is obstinate rebellion. Third, keep daily before your eyes the uncertainty of life and the certainty of judgment. All our other efforts- Mass, fasting, works of charity- profit nothing if anger and hatred alone bring us to eternal punishment. Practically, this means catching the first interior movement of irritation and turning it at once into sorrow for our own impatience. It means refusing to nurse the grievance past sunset, seeking reconciliation before the next Holy Communion, and enlarging the heart with patience so that the "waves of anger" are received and dissipated rather than confined and intensified. Peace, Cassian reminds us, does not depend on the conduct of others; it lies in our own control. In the confessional and in the daily struggle of parish life, I see how often this vice wounds families and friendships. Let us ask the Lord, who is meek and humble of heart, to give us the grace to root it out. May the peace of Christ, which surpasses all understanding, guard our hearts and our parish. In other news, due to an unexpected leave, I have been appointed as Vicar General and Chancellor of the Diocese of Charlotte by Bishop Martin. While this appointment is expected to be temporary, during the interim, it will make my ability to take appointments rather limited. Please be patient with the office staff as they try to accommodate those needs along with my additional responsibilities.
By John Putnam • October 30, 2026
On this Solemnity of All Saints, we have the profound joy of celebrating our brothers and sisters in Christ, the saints. This is an especially meaningful feast for us as Christian stewards. At Baptism, each of us receives the call to holiness and discipleship. In other words, we are all called to become saints. Holiness is not reserved for a select few. It is God's desire for every one of His children. The stewardship way of life helps us answer that call each day. In today's Gospel from Matthew, Jesus gives us the Beatitudes. They reveal the qualities that mark the lives of His disciples and point us toward authentic holiness. As we continue striving to live as faithful stewards, the Beatitudes provide a faithful measure of our growth in Christ. The "blessed" that Jesus describes are not different categories of people who make it to heaven. Rather, they reveal the character of those who belong to Him - the poor in spirit, the merciful, the pure of heart, the peacemakers, and all who remain faithful in the midst of trials. None of us can live this way on our own. But as beloved children of God, we receive the grace we need through prayer, the sacraments, and a life centered on Christ. May the example of the saints inspire us to persevere in our own call to holiness, trusting that one day we will join them in the everlasting joy of heaven. © Catholic Stewardship Conference, 2026 Pastoral Pondering October brought us the Church's renewed attention to mental health. Pope Leo XIV has asked us this month to pray that our communities become places where those who carry unseen burdens find welcome, dignity, and hope- not judgment or silence. Many of those burdens are carried by women and girls. Some have lived through abuse, assault, or trauma that few around them even know about. Recent headlines, including those from Cornell University, have reminded the whole country how widespread these wounds are and how alone many survivors feel. Regardless of the outcome and veracity of the Cornell case, these types of cases exist closer to home. Women in our own parish and community often suffer quietly, unsure where to turn or whether anyone will truly understand. There is help, and there is hope. Healed and Restored, the local Catholic ministry founded by our own parishioner Elza Spaedy, exists precisely for this purpose. Through counseling, workshops, spiritual mentoring, retreats, and a supportive community, it walks with women and girls who have experienced abuse, assault, domestic violence, trafficking, or other trauma. Rooted in faith, it helps them encounter the Divine Physician who alone can restore what has been broken and discover that their wounds do not define them. Many of the women who have walked this path have found real freedom and a renewed sense of their dignity as daughters of God. If you are carrying a wound like this, or if you know someone who is, I encourage you to reach out. Information is available at healedandrestored.org. And if you simply want to stand with those who are hurting, please keep them in your prayers. Sometimes the greatest gift we can offer is to notice, to listen without fear, and to point someone toward the healing Christ offers. May the Lord who binds up the brokenhearted make our parish a place of true restoration.