From the Pastor - 22nd Sunday in Ordinary Time

August 26, 2022

Today’s readings remind us of a chief virtue that characterizes the Christian steward: humility. This is a virtue that is widely thought of as a form of self-abasement. That understanding, however, is off the mark. Humility is simply the awareness of who (and Whose) we truly are. 


On one hand, we are children of the Most High God who loved us into existence and who, by virtue of our Baptism, have the Holy Trinity dwelling within us. On the other hand, we are children who are completely dependent on God for our existence and for every breath we take. Our Lord speaks of true humility in our Gospel passage from Luke, telling the parable of the guests invited to a wedding banquet and instructing us not to seek a place of honor at the banquet table, lest a more distinguished guest arrives and we are asked to move to a lower place.


Jesus has much more in mind here than an etiquette lesson. He is reminding us that all glory belongs to God. The visual image He offers in having to slink down to a lower seat at the table points out how silly we are when we forget to give God the credit for our blessings and talents.


On the other hand, when we live in humility — recognizing that all we have is a gift from God and using those gifts to serve Him and others — then God “exalts” us by filling us with even more of Himself and His grace.


Jesus goes on to encourage us to serve and share our blessings with people facing circumstances that would make it impossible for them to offer us any worldly advantage or prestige — “the poor, the crippled, the lame.”


Our attitude and how we serve and share should be centered on true humility — recognizing that we are all “little” ones in the eyes of God. We are all His children; brothers and sisters invited to our Father’s heavenly banquet.

© Catholic Stewardship Consultants, 2022


Pastoral Pondering

I am generally not a negative person. I try to see “the glass half full” when at all possible. On the other hand, I think we all have to be realistic about the world around us. With that being said, in a recent anonymous email that was forwarded to me, a complaint was lodged that our homilies here, among other things, tend to paint the world as bad…even though “real persecution of Christians is happening in places such as China or the Middle East, not in the United States.” In all candor, if I receive an unsigned letter or an anonymous email, I have no use for it. In this case though, in light of some current events, I decided to do so. If people have issues or concerns, then I am always happy to discuss them face to face. I may or may not agree with those concerns, but I will be respectful and listen. That, however, is only possible, when the one concerned has enough integrity to actually share them.


Now, I agree that Christians are not being beheaded by Isis or some other terror group here in the USA, but there are some indications that things are not as “rosy” as some might think. For example, since May of 2020, there have been over 200 attacks on U.S. Catholic Churches. Some of these were graffiti or destruction of a statue but others included arson and the complete destruction of a church building. Of these 200, 70 occurred following the illegal release of the Supreme Court’s draft of the Dobbs decision that returned the

matter of abortion to the states.


More recently, last Sunday, the vigil of the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary, the Atlantic published an article which claimed that the rosary is an “extremist symbol.” Because of the backlash that followed the release of the article, the publishers of the Atlantic changed the title three times; finally settling on How Extremist Gun Culture is Trying to Co-Opt the Rosary.


The article itself is, to say the least, a poor example of journalism, if it even can be called that. The author, Dan Panneton, attempts, and rather poorly at that, to connect violent terrorism with those who pray the rosary. To be sure, we Catholics do use words such as “spiritual warfare” and “battle,” but, as anyone familiar with the Scriptures or Church teaching knows, those descriptions are dealing with spiritual realities. And, as far as I can tell, I have heard no stories of rosary toting nuns firebombing abortion clinics or fanatical friars attempting to lead angry mobs in violent attacks on Catholic dissidents or secularists.


Finally, yes, Christians in Sudan, the Middle East, and China are often the victims of terrible violence. We as Catholics who still have Constitutional rights, should speak up and oppose this violence and do what we can to assist the victims. Nonetheless, we must not stick

our heads in the sand and fail to see that anti-Catholic sentiment and violence have been increasing right here in the U.S. In our particular area, we have been spared some of the more egregious acts, but unless we are vigilant, we should not be surprised when we are not.  Regardless, we are all called to the same response. We are called to be holy; to work on our own spiritual health and well-being while at the same time striving to allow the Truth of Christ to inform the culture around us. And one of the ways to do that, is to pray the spiritual weapon that Our Lady has given us and saints have recommended over the centuries, the Most Holy Rosary.

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From the Pastor - Third Sunday of Easter

By John Putnam • April 17, 2026
Today’s readings focus on a theme of “sojourning.” As Christian stewards, we know our lives are a sojourn toward the ultimate destination of heaven. Our Gospel passage today describes the sojourn of the two disciples on the road to Emmaus. The two are dejected and despondent after Jesus’ death. They knew Jesus personally. They had heard the Gospel message directly from His lips. They heard the testimony of the women who discovered our Lord’s empty tomb and saw a vision of angels announcing He was alive. They had been informed by other disciples who went to the tomb that all was exactly as the women reported. How much more obvious could the Good News be? And yet, at times, the reaction of the two disciples describes our own stewardship journey, doesn’t it? We have the fullness of the Catholic faith, the power of the sacraments, and the support of our parish family. Yet, we often lose our way. We fail to see all the gifts we have been given. We lack trust in the perfect goodness and almighty power of God. But notice what happens to the two men when their eyes are opened once again, and they recognize Jesus in the Eucharist — the “breaking of the bread.” They are transformed! Their hearts are set on fire with love for the Lord and for their faith. They recall that their hearts began “burning within” as the Lord was explaining the Scriptures to them. When we find we have lost our way, we can go to the same sources as the two disciples on the road to Emmaus — the Scriptures and the Eucharist. In this Easter season, resolve to feast deeply on these two sources of grace. They are the fuel that will propel us on our journey toward heaven. © Catholic Stewardship Consultants, 2026 Pastoral Pondering Returning to a review of Catholic teaching basics, as we move into Spring, we often see an increase in the number of weddings requested. Sadly, it is not uncommon these days to find couples choosing to live together prior to their marriage. Hence, I thought it would be a good idea to lay out the Church’s teaching on this matter in a concise way. Living Together Before Marriage: A Catholic Perspective From the Catholic Church’s teaching, living together (cohabitation) before marriage is morally wrong, primarily because it typically involves fornication —sexual relations outside of marriage—which is gravely sinful (CCC 2353). Human sexuality is a sacred gift ordered by God to the unitive and procreative purposes of marriage alone. Sexual intimacy outside marriage cannot express the total, faithful, and permanent self-giving that spouses vow in the sacrament. Instead, it says with the body what is not yet true in commitment: “I give myself to you completely and forever.” This makes the act a contradiction, contrary to the dignity of persons and God’s plan for love (see CCC 2391; USCCB resources on marriage preparation). Cohabitation also: Creates a near occasion of sin , placing the couple in a situation that strongly tempts them toward grave immorality. Gives scandal , leading others—especially the young—to doubt or dismiss the Church’s teaching on chastity and the sacredness of marriage. Treats marriage as a “trial” rather than the definitive covenant it is meant to be. True love “demands a total and definitive gift of persons to one another” and cannot be an arrangement “until further notice.” Additionally, studies cited by Catholic sources show that couples who cohabit before marriage face higher risks of divorce, instability, and weaker commitment compared to those who do not. The Church calls engaged couples to practice chastity in continence during preparation for marriage—an “apprenticeship in fidelity” that builds mutual respect and prepares them to receive the grace of the sacrament (CCC 2350). Priests, deacons and pastoral ministers accompany cohabiting couples with mercy and truth, encouraging them to live separately or chastely while preparing for a valid sacramental marriage. In a culture that often views cohabitation as practical or normal, the Church invites couples to witness the beauty of God’s design: chastity before marriage, followed by a joyful, lifelong union blessed by the sacrament. For more, see the Catechism of the Catholic Church (esp. 2331–2400).

From the Pastor - Divine Mercy Sunday

By John Putnam • April 10, 2026
The great feast of Easter has begun, Christian stewards. Let us rejoice and be glad! Just as we embraced the discipline and fasting of Lent, let us fully embrace the joy and feasting that the next 50 days offer. We are called to be good stewards of the Easter season. Our first reading, from Acts, gives instruction on how to do this. Here, St. Peter says that our Lord, “commissioned us to preach to the people and testify that he is the one appointed by God as judge of the living and the dead… that everyone who believes in him will receive forgiveness of sins through his name.” How do we ordinary people preach and testify to all God has done? We do so through how we live our ordinary lives — through the intentional use of our time, talent, and treasure for the kingdom of God. Putting God and others ahead of ourselves in every aspect of our lives is the most eloquent preaching we can do. Boldly and joyfully embracing a stewardship way of life is our most powerful testimony. As Christian stewards, we are the modern-day witnesses of an incredible miracle prompted by unfathomable love — the death and Resurrection of our Savior for us. Let us rejoice and be glad and let’s make sure our lives are a testimony to this amazing grace! © Catholic Stewardship Conference, 2026  HAPPY EASTER!