From the Pastor - 12th Sunday in Ordinary Time

June 18, 2021

Our readings today remind us that God always has our best interests in mind. No matter what is going on in our lives, God is with us.

 

In our Gospel today, Jesus and His disciples are traveling in a boat when heavy winds and violent waves begin to overwhelm the boat. Jesus was there sleeping in the boat in the midst of this horrific storm.

 

The disciples woke Jesus and questioned Him, “Teacher, do you not care that we are perishing?” Jesus calms the wind and the waves, and then asks them in return, “Why are you terrified? Do you not yet have faith?”

 

Think back to a time that you endured great suffering, a hard trial or felt overwhelmed with life. How did you respond?

 

In moments of trial, we often live our days in a panic. We see the water coming into our boat and we do all that we can in our power to stay afloat. We are frantic, so we fail to stop and recognize that our Savior is in the same boat with us. Although it might feel like He is sleeping and His presence is lacking, He is right there suffering with us.

 

God won’t allow anything that we cannot handle. In a moment of suffering, we might feel trapped. Yet, He sees the moment of peace and still waters.

 

During our trials, cling to Jesus. Know that there is an end, and whether we see the end in this life or the next, God allows it all for our salvation.

 

Today, let us thank God for His presence in our lives, and ask for the eyes of faith to see that He is right here with us always. 

 

Pastoral Pondering

Before continuing on with our catechesis, I want to address an unexpected change. While we had originally hoped that our clergy personnel would remain unchanged, due to unforeseen circumstances in the Diocese, Father Gámez will be leaving us on July 6th. He has been an amazing addition to our parish family, and it has been a joy working with him during his first years of priesthood. I am unable at present to announce where Father is going or who will be coming here, but will hopefully be able to do so next week.

 

The Second Precept – You shall confess your sins at least once a year: We must prepare for the Eucharist by means of the Sacrament of Reconciliation (Confession). The sacrament “continues Baptism’s work of conversion and forgiveness (Code of Canon Law, 989 as quoted in CCC, 2042).

 

The sacrament of Penance, also called reconciliation or confession, is that gift of Christ that recognizes our weakness as human beings due to our fallen human nature. Since our mission is to maintain communion with Christ and His Church, we need the spiritual aids that will assist us to do so since we cannot do so without God’s help. The sacrament of penance along with the sacrament of the anointing of the sick are identified as sacraments of healing. They restore us to spiritual health.

 

For its part the sacrament of penance, in order to truly be effective, requires that it be an external expression of something that is already an interior reality; namely, interior sorrow or contrition for offending God by falling into sin. As St. Ambrose, the great Archbishop of Milan noted, “there are two conversions in the Church, water and tears; the waters of baptism and the tears of repentance” (See CCC, 1429).

 

Because is first and foremost “an offense against God (CCC, 1440), we should always be mindful of the serious consequences that arise from freely giving into sin; which also damages our relationship with the Church. Hence, in order to repair the damage caused by sin, by Christ’s design, we need an act of the Church to bring about the fullness of healing. Of course, as the Catechism points out, “only God forgives sin” (1441), nonetheless because of His power as God, Christ handed on that authority to the Apostles and their successors to exercise this sacred task through His bride, the Church (see Mt. 16:19; cf. Mt, 18:18; 28:16-20).

 

While it is strictly true that only serious or mortal sin is necessary to restore communion (see CCC, 1456), it is a worthy practice to use the sacrament with regularity even if only venial sins have been committed because the sacrament itself is a font of grace through which the penitent is strengthened to fight temptation and avoid sin (CCC, 1458). Those conscious of serious or mortal sin must not approach Communion until they have received sacramental absolution (CCC, 1457).

 

One of the aspects of the sacrament that is often overlooked is the necessity of satisfaction. Forgiveness of sin brings about reconciliation with God and the Church. In addition to injuring our relationship with God, sin often also injures others. Because of this, simple justice requires that the sinner repair the harm that his sin has caused, e.g., return stolen goods, restore someone’s name, pay compensation for injuries (CCC, 1459). This aspect of reconciliation is often called reparation or expiation for sin. The priest confessor, in imposing a penance, should take this into consideration when offering the penitent guidance in restoring relationships and healing offenses.

 

At St. Mark we committed several years ago to offer opportunities for the regular reception of this sacrament of healing. Usually, confessions are offered prior to each Mass, and regular times for confession are offered on Saturday afternoons and Wednesday evenings.

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From the Pastor - Fourth Sunday of Easter

By John Putnam • April 24, 2026
Today’s readings on this fourth Sunday of Easter offer us a glimpse into the heart of our loving Savior. He is the Good Shepherd and we can confidently place our trust in Him as we live the stewardship way of life. This endearing image of Jesus as our shepherd, and His personal love for each one of us, is described in our Gospel passage from John, through the words of Jesus Himself. Here we read Jesus’ description of Himself as the “Good Shepherd.” He says of Himself, “The sheep hear his voice, as the shepherd calls his own sheep by name and leads them out. When he has driven out all his own, he walks ahead of them and the sheep follow him, because they recognize his voice.” This aspect of our Lord’s tender and personal love for each one of us is a compelling reason to embrace the stewardship way of life — in the offering of our time, talent, and treasure to Him, we can express our gratitude to Him for the incomprehensible love He has for us. Embracing this way of life certainly requires trust on our part. But Christ has proven Himself worthy of our trust. He “bore our sins in His body.” He calls Himself our shepherd and He offers Himself as the guardian of our souls. He has withheld nothing of Himself and His goodness from us. He would never ask anything of us that would bring us harm. He tells us “I came so that [you] might have life and have it more abundantly.” This Easter season, let us resolve to entrust ourselves and our lives gratefully to Him. © Catholic Stewardship Consultants, 2026 Pastoral Pondering As we continue our treatment of the basics of the faith and following up on last week’s discussion of cohabitation, this week I wanted to focus on Natural Family Planning which some people misconstrue as Catholic contraception. Natural Family Planning: The Catholic Way to Responsible Parenthood Natural Family Planning (NFP) consists of moral, scientific methods that help married couples achieve or postpone pregnancy by observing a woman’s natural signs of fertility—such as cervical mucus and basal body temperature—without drugs, devices, or surgery. The Catholic Church fully supports NFP because it respects God’s design for marital love, which is both **unitive** (bonding) and **procreative** (open to life). Unlike artificial contraception, which deliberately blocks fertility, NFP works with the body’s natural cycles through periodic abstinence when needed. Church Teaching In Humanae Vitae (1968), Pope St. Paul VI taught that couples may use the infertile periods for serious reasons, while always remaining open to the gift of children. The Catechism of the Catholic Church (2370) affirms that methods based on self-observation and infertile periods are morally acceptable because they respect the dignity of the spouses and promote authentic freedom. NFP is not “Catholic contraception.” The difference is in the heart: contraception rejects fertility in the act itself; NFP involves responsible discernment and periodic continence when there are just reasons (health, financial, emotional, or other proportionate circumstances). Couples should prayerfully discern together, ideally with a priest or spiritual director, avoiding a selfish “contraceptive mentality.” NFP can also help couples conceive by identifying the fertile window. Benefits for Catholic Couples - Strengthens marriage through better communication, mutual respect, and shared sacrifice. - Respects the woman’s body and natural rhythms. - Highly effective when properly learned and used. - Supports monitoring of reproductive health. Popular Church-approved methods include the Sympto-Thermal Method , Creighton Model , and Marquette Method . Instruction from a certified teacher is strongly recommended. A Parish Invitation As the domestic Church, families thrive when they live God’s plan for love and life. If you are preparing for marriage, newlywed, or seeking to grow in this area, contact your diocesan Family Life Office or visit the USCCB Natural Family Planning page for resources and local classes.  May the Lord bless all married couples as they cooperate with God in the beautiful vocation of responsible parenthood!

From the Pastor - Third Sunday of Easter

By John Putnam • April 17, 2026
Today’s readings focus on a theme of “sojourning.” As Christian stewards, we know our lives are a sojourn toward the ultimate destination of heaven. Our Gospel passage today describes the sojourn of the two disciples on the road to Emmaus. The two are dejected and despondent after Jesus’ death. They knew Jesus personally. They had heard the Gospel message directly from His lips. They heard the testimony of the women who discovered our Lord’s empty tomb and saw a vision of angels announcing He was alive. They had been informed by other disciples who went to the tomb that all was exactly as the women reported. How much more obvious could the Good News be? And yet, at times, the reaction of the two disciples describes our own stewardship journey, doesn’t it? We have the fullness of the Catholic faith, the power of the sacraments, and the support of our parish family. Yet, we often lose our way. We fail to see all the gifts we have been given. We lack trust in the perfect goodness and almighty power of God. But notice what happens to the two men when their eyes are opened once again, and they recognize Jesus in the Eucharist — the “breaking of the bread.” They are transformed! Their hearts are set on fire with love for the Lord and for their faith. They recall that their hearts began “burning within” as the Lord was explaining the Scriptures to them. When we find we have lost our way, we can go to the same sources as the two disciples on the road to Emmaus — the Scriptures and the Eucharist. In this Easter season, resolve to feast deeply on these two sources of grace. They are the fuel that will propel us on our journey toward heaven. © Catholic Stewardship Consultants, 2026 Pastoral Pondering Returning to a review of Catholic teaching basics, as we move into Spring, we often see an increase in the number of weddings requested. Sadly, it is not uncommon these days to find couples choosing to live together prior to their marriage. Hence, I thought it would be a good idea to lay out the Church’s teaching on this matter in a concise way. Living Together Before Marriage: A Catholic Perspective From the Catholic Church’s teaching, living together (cohabitation) before marriage is morally wrong, primarily because it typically involves fornication —sexual relations outside of marriage—which is gravely sinful (CCC 2353). Human sexuality is a sacred gift ordered by God to the unitive and procreative purposes of marriage alone. Sexual intimacy outside marriage cannot express the total, faithful, and permanent self-giving that spouses vow in the sacrament. Instead, it says with the body what is not yet true in commitment: “I give myself to you completely and forever.” This makes the act a contradiction, contrary to the dignity of persons and God’s plan for love (see CCC 2391; USCCB resources on marriage preparation). Cohabitation also: Creates a near occasion of sin , placing the couple in a situation that strongly tempts them toward grave immorality. Gives scandal , leading others—especially the young—to doubt or dismiss the Church’s teaching on chastity and the sacredness of marriage. Treats marriage as a “trial” rather than the definitive covenant it is meant to be. True love “demands a total and definitive gift of persons to one another” and cannot be an arrangement “until further notice.” Additionally, studies cited by Catholic sources show that couples who cohabit before marriage face higher risks of divorce, instability, and weaker commitment compared to those who do not. The Church calls engaged couples to practice chastity in continence during preparation for marriage—an “apprenticeship in fidelity” that builds mutual respect and prepares them to receive the grace of the sacrament (CCC 2350). Priests, deacons and pastoral ministers accompany cohabiting couples with mercy and truth, encouraging them to live separately or chastely while preparing for a valid sacramental marriage. In a culture that often views cohabitation as practical or normal, the Church invites couples to witness the beauty of God’s design: chastity before marriage, followed by a joyful, lifelong union blessed by the sacrament. For more, see the Catechism of the Catholic Church (esp. 2331–2400).