From the Pastor – 4th Week of Advent

December 24, 2018

From the Pastor – 4th Week of Advent

St. Alphonsus explains that St. Elizabeth knew what we should know: Whenever Mary comes, she brings her Son.

Jesus was the fruit of Mary, as St. Elizabeth told her: “Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb!” (Lk 1:42). Whoever, then, desires the fruit must go to the tree; whoever desires Jesus must go to Mary; and whoever finds Mary will most certainly find Jesus.

St. Elizabeth saw that the most Blessed Virgin had come to visit her in her own house. Not knowing how to thank her, and filled with humility, she exclaimed: “And why is this granted me, that the mother of my Lord should come to me?” (Lk 1:43).

But we may ask how this could be. Didn’t St. Elizabeth already know that not only Mary, but also Jesus, had entered her house? Why then does she say that she is unworthy to receive the mother, and not rather that she is unworthy to receive the Son, who had come to visit her?

The reason is this: The saint knew full well that when Mary comes, she brings Jesus. So it was sufficient to thank the mother without naming the Son.

“She is like ships of the merchant; she brings her bread from afar” (see Prv 31:14). Mary was this fortunate ship that brought us Jesus Christ from heaven, who is the living Bread that comes down from heaven to give us eternal life, as he himself says: “I am the living bread which came down from heaven; if any one eats of this bread, he will live forever” (Jn 6:51). —St. Alphonsus Liguori, The Glories of Mary

Pastoral Pondering

Over the past year the other priests and I have become accustomed to bird watching as we sit at the kitchen table. We have bird feeders and a fountain that the birds (and squirrels) enjoy immensely. As I am writing this, a cardinal is feeding as the sleet continues to fall (early bulletin deadlines required that I write this on the Second Sunday of Advent in the midst of the winter snowstorm). To see the brightness of the red cardinal against the backdrop of the white snow is a reminder of God’s goodness to us. In the midst of the world’s bleakness, the brightness of the Father’s glory shows forth.

It’s a wonderful analogy to use with the coming of Jesus, whether at his coming in the womb of Our Lady to Elizabeth, His coming into the world at His birth in Bethlehem, or His coming every time we celebrate Holy Mass. Jesus comes to dispel our darkness. He comes to bring the very Light of God into our heart and soul. Our task, of course, is to let Him do so by saying with Mary “Fiat”, let it be done to me.

As we prepare for the celebration of His birth, please know that your priests pray for you every day. Our prayer is that every member of the parish, priests and people alike, might be open to the Light of Christ and welcome Him when He comes.

Last week someone asked if, from time to time, I would recommend a book for spiritual reading and enrichment. With that in mind, I would recommend Jesus and the Jewish Roots of Mary by Dr. Brant Pitre. He does a great job of pulling the Scriptures together and helping his readers understand the richness of the Church’s understanding of Our Lady.

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From the Pastor - 33rd Sunday in Ordinary Time

By John Putnam • November 13, 2026
Today's readings remind us that one day each of us will give an account for the gifts God has entrusted to us, including the gift of time itself. In today's Gospel, Jesus tells the familiar parable of the talents. Before leaving on a journey, a wealthy man entrusts portions of his wealth to three servants according to their abilities. Two of the servants immediately put those gifts to work and are rewarded for their faithfulness. The third, acting out of fear, buries what was entrusted to him and returns only what he had received. The tragedy is not that the servant lacked ability. It is that he failed to recognize the privilege he had been given. His master invited him to share in his work, but fear kept him from responding. God extends that same invitation to us. He entrusts each of us with unique gifts and invites us to use them for His glory and for the good of others. May we live each day so that, when our work is finished, we too may hear those joyful words: "Well done, my good and faithful servant... Come, share your master's joy." © Catholic Stewardship Conference, 2026 Pastoral Pondering As we approach the end of the liturgical year and prepare for the beginning of Advent, we are provided with a good opportunity to look back over our year of faith and ask ourselves, "How am I doing?" For most of us, we can find a landscape of positives and negatives, and that is OK. You might say that there is no surprise there because that is simply part of life. Our task, of course, is to always look for ways to grow in holiness and grow our relationship with the Lord. This point is always brought home to me when I attend a funeral, especially the funeral of a priest, which I did earlier today. The priest in question, Father Edward Sheridan, was my pastor at St. Aloysius in Hickory when I was in high school. He was also one of the priests who helped build up the newly formed Diocese of Charlotte in the 1970s. Fr. Ed loved people and always tried to be a source of encouragement to me and others. As I reminisced at this morning's funeral, the thought came that death is the great equalizer. Regardless of who we are, what we have, or where we have come from, we are all going to die. This life is transitory, so we need to be ready. Certainly, the Scriptures that we will hear over the coming weeks will try to impress that reality upon us. As we encounter God's Word and that particular message, let each of us ask for the wisdom to see what we need to see to make next year more fruitful and Spirit-filled, as well as asking the Lord to give us the courage to strive to do even better in the coming year.

From the Pastor - 32nd Sunday in Ordinary Time

By John Putnam • November 6, 2026
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