From the Pastor – 4th Sunday of Easter

May 13, 2019

From the Pastor – 4 th Sunday of Easter

Throughout the Easter season, our readings have given us glimpses into the life of the newborn Church and the bold witness of the early disciples in spreading the Good News of Jesus Christ to all who would listen. These disciples were the first to live a stewardship way of life and their example is as relevant today as it was 2,000 years ago.

In the First Reading, from the Acts of the Apostles, we catch up with Paul and Barnabas in Antioch. While they certainly have some success in reaching many people there with the message of salvation, others are downright infuriated by their words and send them packing. Yet, we read that “the disciples were filled with joy and the Holy Spirit.” Overall, it seems as if Paul and Barnabas had failed in Antioch. But this seeing failure has not robbed them of their joy.  What’s more, they are filled to the brim with the abundant gifts of the Holy Spirit. How is this possible?

It is only possible because Paul and Barnabas saw themselves as nothing more and nothing less than stewards of Christ and His Good News. This realization brought them freedom —  to offer themselves and their lives to others for the sake of the Gospel. The “results” of their efforts were up to God.

This Spirit-filled, joy-filled life is available to all of us, all these years later. It can be achieved when we recognize, like Paul and Barnabas, that all we have and all we are is a gift from God, meant to be shared with others for His glory. Of course, living as God’s stewards does not mean a life of ease or a life free of sacrifice. Sometimes the steward’s life involves great challenges, requiring all the strength and love one has to give. But in the end there is simply no more satisfying way to live.

Pastoral Pondering

I want to congratulate our second graders who received their First Holy Communion yesterday. Our final of three celebrations will be held next Saturday morning. Special thanks goes to Mary Anne Pape, our catechists, St. Mark Second Grade Teachers, and our parents who do so much to prepare our children and make these celebrations possible. First Communion is one of my favorite celebrations during the year because I am always renewed in my own faith when I see the love and devotion that these children have.

Matters of Faith — Last week I addressed some issues surrounding infertility. This week I will again turn to the National Catholic Bioethics center to look at another important moral issue, the end of life. All of us have or will face issues regarding the end of life. These times can be stressful and quite difficult. At the same time, unless there is some preparation, we may be called upon to make serious decisions very quickly. The following information is taken from the resources page of the National Catholic Bioethics Center (ncbcenter.org).

Catholic moral teaching arises from the Catholic understanding of the human person. Specifically, we believe that the human person, made in the image and likeness of God, has inherent worth, intrinsic value. Because of that we reverence the human person from the moment of conception to natural death. The NCBC identifies the following topics for consideration regarding the end of life: the redemptive nature of suffering, the important difference between morally obligatory and optional means of conserving one’s life, the moral and legal status of Advanced Medical Directives and Durable Power of Attorney, and the spread of euthanasia advocacy in America today.

It is a normal human response to want to avoid suffering. Yet, we know in every day life, that suffering comes. Whether it comes to the athlete who pushes himself or herself on the athletic field, someone recovering from the effects of surgery or someone dealing with the natural aches and pains of the aging process, every one of us will experience physical suffering in some way.

For the Christian our understanding of suffering must always be seen through the lens of the passion, death and resurrection of Christ. The Heavenly Father did not will suffering to be a part of the human experience. That came into reality because of the sin of Adam and Eve, but the Father allowed the reality of suffering to become salvific in the offering of His Son, Jesus Christ. Because of this, we can unite ourselves and our suffering to the Cross of Jesus Christ. In doing so, we assist with the work of salvation for the entire world. As St. Paul says, “Now I rejoice in my sufferings for your sake, and in my flesh I complete what is lacking in Christ’s afflictions for the sake of his body, that is, the Church…(Col. 1:24 RSV). Hence, as Catholics, we are called to freely embrace a share in the sufferings of Christ in reparation for our own sins and for the sins of the world.

In considering obligatory and optional means, the main consideration is that we may never directly take innocent human life, including our own. The distinction that is often made in this regard is what is required or ordinary and what is not required or extraordinary. Many years ago Pope Pius XII indicated that we are bound “to use only ordinary means — according to the circumstances of persons, places, times and culture —that is to say, means that do not involve any grave burden for oneself or another. A stricter obligation would be too burdensome for most people and would render the attainment of the higher, more important good too difficult. Life, health, all temporal activities are in fact subordinated to spiritual ends.”

Even though the advances in medical science has made this determination more difficult, we can say that when a medical procedure has little home of improving the health of the person or, because of various factors, is overly burdensome, then it can be legitimately refused. It is important to seek moral guidance from priests and others who have expertise in moral theology and medical ethics in addition to the advice of physicians and health care workers. In order to make such decisions, all pertinent information needs to be available and provided to the patient. Normal care, including nutrition and hydration, are in general morally obligatory; unless it can be shown that doing so would cause harm to the patient.

Advanced Medical Directives and a Durable Power of Attorney are very useful in preparing for the inevitability of these difficult situations. In general the directives should “focus on goals rather than specific medical procedures”. Care has to be taken in their preparation, however, to insure they reflect and expressive of Catholic values and faith. The durable POA is the most useful because you entrust these decisions to someone that knows who you are, what you believe, and how you want these matters handled.

Finally, there has been a move for some time to promote and expand the use of euthanasia around the world. In some places, it has already been very much operative. Pope St. John Paul II defines euthanasia as “an action or omission which of itself and by intention causes death, with the purpose of eliminating all suffering.” The names of Terri Schiavo, Charlie Gard and others come to mind. As more and more government entities embrace these practices, it becomes even more important to be clear about your desires concerning the end of life. It’s something that you should consider now, so that you can be prepared tomorrow.

Please know that the priests and deacons of the parish are happy to be of assistance to you in discussing these matters. As noted above the NCBC has a wealth of information that is easily accessible and understandable concerning these and other important moral issues.

From the Pastor

From the Pastor - 15th Sunday in Ordinary Time

By John Putnam • July 10, 2026
In today’s Gospel from Matthew, Jesus shares the familiar Parable of the Sower. It is a powerful image for the stewardship way of life, demonstrating the gradual but transformative effect that a life centered on God can have on us over time. In the parable, some seed falls on a path where birds quickly carry it away. Other seed falls on rocky ground, where it begins to grow but cannot develop deep roots. Still more seed falls among thorns that eventually choke the young plants. Finally, some seed falls on rich, fertile soil and produces an abundant harvest. Jesus explains that the seed is the Word of God, generously scattered for all to receive. The question is whether our hearts are prepared to receive it and allow it to take root. This is where the stewardship way of life comes in. When we offer our time, talent, and treasure to God and place Him first in our lives, we help create the “good soil” needed for the Kingdom to flourish within us. Stewardship removes the “rocks” of mistrust as we grow in confidence that God will provide for our needs. It clears away the “thorns” of worldly concerns that can distract us from what matters most. Through prayer, the sacraments, and generous service, the soil of our lives is continually nourished and renewed. Let us deepen our commitment to this way of life, allowing the Divine Sower to do His work within us. In time, He will produce an abundant harvest through our lives. ©Catholic Stewardship Consultants, 2026. Pastoral Pondering A Pastoral Reflection on the Earthquakes in Venezuela Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ, In these days, our hearts are heavy as we learn of the devastating earthquakes that struck Venezuela on June 24, 2026. Two powerful tremors, measuring approximately 7.2 and 7.5 in magnitude, have caused great loss of life, injured thousands, and left many families homeless and grieving. As your pastor, I invite you to join me in prayer for all those affected— the deceased, the injured, the missing, and those working tirelessly in rescue and relief efforts. May the Lord grant them strength and comfort in this time of trial. The Catholic Church offers us clear guidance on how to understand such natural disasters. They are not punishments from God directed at specific sins or peoples. As the Catechism of the Catholic Church teaches, our world is “in a state of journeying” toward its ultimate perfection (CCC 310). In God’s wise plan, creation includes both life-giving and destructive forces of nature—such as the shifting of tectonic plates that cause earthquakes. Physical evils like these remind us of the disorder introduced into the world by Original Sin, yet they are not direct divine judgments. Jesus Himself rejected such thinking when asked about tragedies in His time (see Luke 13:1-5 and John 9:1-3). Instead, these events humble us, turn our eyes from fleeting earthly goods toward heaven, and call forth the best in us: compassion, solidarity, and trust in God’s providence. Our Holy Father, Pope Leo XIV, has expressed his deep closeness to the Venezuelan people. He has offered prayers for the victims and their families, entrusted the rescuers to the Lord, and sent an initial emergency donation of €100,000 to support relief efforts through the local Church. He urges the international community to respond with generous solidarity. In moments like this, we remember that creation itself “groans” in labor pains as it awaits full redemption (Romans 8:22). Yet we are not without hope. God does not abandon His children. He is present in the suffering Christ who walks with us, and He brings good even from tragedy—through heroic acts of charity, stronger communities, and hearts turned more fully toward Him. What can we do here at St. Mark’s? - Pray: Offer Masses, Rosaries, or personal prayers for Venezuela. Consider a special intention at weekend Masses. - Help: Support reliable Catholic relief organizations such as Catholic Relief Services (CRS) or efforts coordinated by our Diocese of Charlotte. Even small donations can provide food, shelter, and medical aid. - Reflect: Use this as an opportunity for personal conversion and gratitude for the blessings we enjoy.  Let us entrust our Venezuelan brothers and sisters to the intercession of Our Lady of Guadalupe and St. Mark, our patron. May the Risen Lord bring healing, peace, and hope to all who suffer. And may we, as one parish family, respond with the love of Christ.

From the Pastor - 14th Sunday in Ordinary Time

By John Putnam • July 10, 2026
The theme of humility is central to our readings today. God Himself is a humble God, so if we wish to follow Him as Christian stewards, we too, must be humble. In fact, humility is key to the stewardship way of life, and to a peaceful and fulfilling life. In our Gospel passage from Matthew, Jesus Himself speaks to the Father about the privileged role that humble souls play in God’s plan of salvation. “I give praise to you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, for although you have hidden these things from the wise and the learned you have revealed them to little ones.” What does it mean to be a “little one”? It means that we acknowledge we don’t have it all figured out, but that we are very much in need of a savior. It means we recognize that all we are and all we have been given is a gift from God. It means we embrace the stewardship way of life. It is not easy, but deep peace and consolation come with this way of life. Jesus offers these warm and encouraging words to entice us to embrace them. “Come to me, all you who labor and are burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am meek and humble of heart; and you will find rest for yourselves. For my yoke is easy, and my burden light.” Let us resolve to follow in the footsteps of our Savior, embracing the humble path of stewardship. It is the path that leads to peace here and now, and ultimately leads us to heaven. © Catholic Stewardship Consultants, 2026. Pastoral Pondering One of the struggles that confessors often have to face is the reality of scrupulosity. It is not something new and has in fact been recognized as a spiritual obstacle throughout the centuries. Hence, I thought a discussion of the issue, albeit brief, would be helpful to those who face it or know someone who does.  Scrupulosity is a condition in which a person experiences excessive, persistent anxiety and doubt about sin, often seeing mortal sin where there is none or obsessing over past faults that have already been forgiven. It is sometimes described as a religious form of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and can cause great spiritual distress, frequent confessions, and difficulty trusting in God’s mercy. The Church has long recognized scrupulosity as a heavy cross, not a sign of weak faith but a challenge that even great saints like St. Ignatius of Loyola and St. Alphonsus Liguori faced. The Catholic response emphasizes trust in God’s infinite mercy, the reliability of the sacraments, and obedience to a trusted confessor or spiritual director. Key principles include: once a sin is confessed and absolved, do not revisit it; temptation is not the same as consent or sin; and venial sins are forgiven through ordinary acts of love and the Eucharist. If you struggle with scrupulosity, choose one regular confessor, follow his guidance faithfully, and resist the urge to “priest-hop” for repeated reassurance. Professional help from a therapist familiar with OCD and Catholic teaching can also be a valuable complement. Remember the words of Jesus : “Come to me, all you who labor and are burdened, and I will give you rest” (Mt 11:28). God’s mercy is greater than our fears. If you or someone you know suffers in this way, speak with a priest, seek spiritual direction, and know that you are not alone. Resources such as *Scrupulous Anonymous* (a free newsletter) and books like Fr. Thomas Santa’s *Understanding Scrupulosity* can offer further encouragement. May the Lord grant peace to all who carry this burden.