From the Pastor - 18th Sunday in Ordinary Time
From the Pastor - 18th Sunday in Ordinary Time
Stewardship Connection - Today’s Gospel passage comes as a pat on the back from Heaven for all of us striving to live a stewardship way of life. It reminds us why we live the way we do and why we make the choices we make. Let’s face it, if we truly embrace this way of life, there will be people who find our choices — based on serving God and others — downright foolish. But let’s see what God thinks. Spoiler alert: turns out Christian stewards are not the fools!
In this passage, Jesus makes it clear that life is not about “stuff” as he tells the parable of the wealthy businessman who thought he had everything figured out. The man had such an abundance of stuff that he didn’t have room to store it all. So, thinking of earthly things and not on what is above, he decided to build a bigger place to store all that stuff. Patting himself on the back, he thought about what good times he would have in the years ahead. But, Jesus tells us that day would turn out to be the man’s last day on the earth. And he had spent it thinking only of himself. How foolish!
Don’t be ashamed of living differently from the people around you. Be confident as you set priorities based on what is above. You are wise in God’s eyes, Christian steward. And you will be rich in what matters most. ©Catholic Stewardship Consultants
Pastoral Pondering – One of the joys that we have as a Church is the celebration of Baptism. This first sacrament is the doorway into the sacramental life of the Church. While all baptisms are joyful, the baptism of children is especially meaningful, not only to the family presenting the child but to the parish as well. From time to time questions arise about what preparation should be made in anticipation of a child’s baptism. Hence, I wanted to briefly discuss what the Church expects and what, specifically, we do at St. Mark.
As already noted, Baptism is the gateway to the sacraments. Moreover, the Church teaches that “Baptism is necessary for salvation. Through baptism men and women are freed from sin, are reborn as children of God, and configured to Christ by an indelible character, and are incorporated into the Church.” (canon 849) Canon 851, 2° notes “the parents of an infant to be baptized and those who are to undertake the function of sponsor are to be instructed properly on the meaning of this sacrament and the obligations attached to it. The pastor personally or through others is to take care that the parents are properly instructed through both pastoral advice and common prayer, bringing several families together and, where possible, visiting them.” Hence, the pastor (or those he designates) has a co-responsibility with the parents and godparents to make sure there is proper preparation for the sacrament. Ideally, this preparation should take place before the child is born so as to provide ample time for prayer and reflection in anticipation of such a great gift from God.
In terms of when the baptism takes place, the Church states the following: “Parents are obliged to take care that infants are baptized in the first few weeks; as soon as possible after the birth or even before it, they are to go to the pastor to request the sacrament for their child and to be properly prepared for it.” (c. 867, §1). The Church asks for this because of the importance of baptism and it’s necessity for salvation. The baptism should never be delayed because of merely social restraints or or other worldly concerns.
There are several reasons that a baptism might be delayed that are outlined in canon 868. These are: the parents do not consent (in a divorce or separation situation, for example; and the parents have no intention of raising the child in the faith. Not providing acceptable sponsors can also be an impediment. In order to stand as godparent, one has to be fully initiated (baptism, confirmation and Eucharist) and lead a life fully in keeping union with the Church. A non-Catholic Christian (not a non-Christian) can serve as a Christian witness as long as the other godparent fulfills the necessary requirements (canon 874).
At St. Mark we have monthly preparations for baptism that are open to both parents and godparents. These are a great opportunity to get to know other couples in the parish and grow in an understanding of the importance and beauty of baptism. Emily Bixler in the parish office handles scheduling both the preparation the baptism and she is always ready to assist with any questions you might have.